Tag: personal experience
Posts I wrote about a week after he was born
by admin on Apr.01, 2010, under Pre-2010
June 19th, 2007
I had a boy!
- Jun. 19th, 2007 at 11:04 AM
I also had an epideral. I wasn’t going to, but as the pain got insane, I finally said let’s do this. I actually wished I would have done it earlier. The pain immediately went away and I was finally able to sleep. When the pushing stage started, the feelings came right back. It was hard, but at least it’s over. It is all worth it as everyone kept saying. Ok, I said I wouldn’t get into it, so I will leave it at that.
He was 6 pds 2 oz at birth and 20 inches long. None of the clothes we had fit him. He is such a little man. He can wear preemie clothes otherwise he is swimming in his onesie.
My health and his health have not exactly been rock solid since he arrived. Yesterday I went on blood pressure meds. My bp was dangerously high yesterday. It was like 165/110 or worse. I can’t remember. That is why some of you aren’t hearing from me. It’s been something every day. We came home from the hospital on Friday. Had in home nurses for 2 days because he had jaundice. That was really hard for dad and me keeping him on a light table. Then his temp dipped down too low and he had to go back to the hospital. Now I think he’s all better and putting on weight fine, but I need to get my bp down. I could easily have had a stroke or a seizure yesterday. Thank God for the fact that I have an at home bp montior. I just used it yesterday to make sure my bp was still low. Well, it wasn’t but, I am thinking the meds should help. Hopefully I will be back to good health soon.
Thanks for everyones support the last 8+ months. I never imagined that my health and his would be like this. Of course, you don’t want to think the worse, but I think the PIH really took me off guard. It con’ts to surprise me that this is still an issue (most moms go back to normal once the baby comes out).
Lastly, life has changed so much now. I keep wondering when things will slow down, but I suppose seeing nurses and dr’s daily is what is absorbing so much of any free time I would have. I have a dr’s appt for myself Friday to see if the meds are working and one for him Monday.
Now back to pumping, feeding, changing diapers!!
June 23rd, 2007
To breastfeed or not…
- Jun. 23rd, 2007 at 5:46 AM
Thanks to everyone for the nice comments about my new baby
He is so sweet. Also thanks for letting me know you could read my journal. I didn’t know if the problem was for one person or many.
I went to the dr yesterday and my blood pressure is finally 120/80!!! I am going on to stay on the meds for another week or 2 and see a dr again. Hopefully I will find out these meds are temporary, but they might not be. Both of my parents take blood pressure meds. My mom started taking them in her late 20′s. I might be like mom here.
Baby’s umbical cord fell off yesterday. Really surprised me that it fell off so soon. I wasn’t sure if it was supposed to be bloody underneath or not. It’s like a scab. It will be kind of goopy at first. It’s already starting to scab over, so no worries.
My biggest concern is feeding. I think I will keep this short because I could go on and on. To con’t to breastfeed or not? My core belief is to breastfeed, but my baby is not having it. It takes forever and he is unsatisfied after what seems like forever on my breast. We always end up giving him a bottle because he’s still hungry. It makes me hungry, tired, and emotional because most of my time is spent trying to get him to take my breast. The bottle, on the other hand, he takes immediately and finishes within minutes – not hours. I have mostly been giving him my pumped milk. I can’t go on like this forever. I either need to breast feed or go to formula and this decesion is not as easy as it sounds. I have always thought I would be a breast feeder and I am disappointed in myself for wanting to quit.
I have had many nurses in the last week + tell me that between his early arrival, the jaundice, and my health issues that breast feeding would be quite a challenge. I wish this was comforting me, but it doesn’t.
Well, I am going to pump now. I am not ready to make this decesion so I continue to pump to keep my supply high and plus it’s dr’s orders. Yawwwwnnn…tired.
Transition to 3 year old services
by admin on Mar.01, 2010, under 2010
This month my son is being evaluated for 3 year old services. I am not concerned about his eligibility since I will most likely not be sending him to a public preschool, but if insurance or whatever comes up, I wanted it in our back pocket.
In my search to find medical transportation, I ran across these links. Hope they might help.
A preschool check-list (more aimed at special needs children)
You don’t have to be wrong for me to be right
If you know or have any personal experience with MAC or St Davids ADT…I would LOVE to talk to you. Please leave me a comment as we are in heavy decision making mode and do not want to move forward with any new therapies without some feedback.
We are also considering sending our son to OT, speech, PT privately again. Just trying to find availability and a good location to make this all work together smoothly. It’s a non-stop search…